My limits have changed over the years, and I expect nuanced change to continue. However, I don’t see any flexibility in my hard limits on the horizon. But the thing about hard limits is I always feel kind of silly looking over the more extreme ones.
Don’t get me wrong, I know and understand why articulating what one will and won’t do is important. And if the enumeration of limits was a waste of time, why I bother thinking them through, much less write this entry. That said, much of what’s listed seems excessive for the following reasons: I’m not one for casual play; accordingly, by the time I know and trust a Dominant enough get down like this, I won’t be concerned they’ve got nappys and an over-sized baby’s bottle tucked in their bag or a randy German Shepherd in the garage.
Because if I misjudge someone’s character that badly, I’ve got bigger problems to address.
Anyway – below are my hard and soft limits. I’m just writing and not using a pre-made form, so there’s a good chance I forgot to include something. What’s here is a kind of outline, nothing close to the detailed and specific contracts I’ve signed.
- Forced Bisexuality
- Cuts, Burns, or Impact play intended to cause serious injury
- Menstrual Service
- Dan Brown Novels