Category: Reflection

Nonfiction content: discussions on – musing about – or analysis of topics relevant to my amazing, smart, good-looking, and kinky readership.

On Alpha Female Dominants & Compatability

Dominant, self-assured women are sexy. Add intelligence and kink to the mix, and I find them irresistible. Unsurprisingly, there are a number of forums on BDSM sites dedicated to ‘Alpha Females’. What is surprising are the number of people who operate under the assumption that Beta boys are the logical partners for Alpha women by default.

Perusing a couple of Alpha Female forums provided me with a few chuckles and some head-scratching moments. For example, a number of comments, by both male submissives and female dominants, imply only a ‘doormat sub’ can serve as worthy companions to an aggressive, dominant female.

Such a limited world view is tedious. (more…)


Origin Stories

A ‘more’ current version of this post can be found HERE.

So much has happened  over the last few months that it’s strange to read this post now. I was in a lot of pain and very lonely around this time. 

Deleting this or revising it feels wrong. Instead, I’m creating and updated version to reflect recent events. Anyway – if you happen across this post, just realize there has been a significant change in my life since this was written. (more…)